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Our Need to Transcend 

June 13, 2017 By Cara Lumen

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We have another challenge, another step to take. Psychologist Abraham Maslow ended his hierarchy of needs with self-actualization. He thought that was the highest point we could reach.  When you are self-actualized, you understand yourself and you understand what you bring to the world. But recently I learned that two years before Maslow died he basically said, “Wait, there is more. We have a need to transcend ourselves.” That, he said, was the missing piece.

Maslow’s hierarchy of needs is pictured as a pyramid.  At the bottom (the fundamental need) is physiological (shelter, food), next is safety, topped by love/belonging.  Esteem is next, with the top of the pyramid being self-actualization.

The premise is that you have to fulfill each of these needs before you can move to the one above it. Until you’re safely sheltered, you’re focused on that rather than on introspective work. So, if you’ve worked your way up to self-actualization, you have one more step to take – to “transcend” yourself.  Transcend – go beyond, rise above.

Our next step is to move beyond ourselves into the unseen, the Great Mystery. We have to journey beyond the confines of our Body Suit experience and move into a deeper relationship with our Invisible Self.

How do we experience transcendence?

Transcendence is an existence or experience above the known physical level.  We experience this unseen world when we get a hunch or follow our intuition, or simply know with certainty the action we should take.

Transcendence is experienced in our deepest meditation, our shamanic journeying, our dreams, our visioning, whatever means we use to move beyond the confines and limitations of our Body Suit into the unseen spaciousness of the Great Mystery. It’s in those times that we transcend, that we go beyond the physical plane.

Why do we want to experience transcendence?

I have taught that the more we know and understand ourselves the more aligned our choices will be. The most powerful thing you can do for yourself is to become more self-aware.  To know your passion, your gifts, and develop the tools and techniques that allow you to offer your unique expression to the world.  But Maslow says that there’s more – that there’s yet another step for us to take.

I got serious about this exploration when I moved into a senior center where there is, by age alone, a lot of death. I’m 84 and not ready to die for many years.  I also had a philosophy of death that seemed to work for me but as I get closer to the experience, I needed and wanted to expand this philosophy. I explored more deeply. What’s next?  What is “out there”?

How do we explore transcendence?

I now explore and work within the inner places I find through shamanic journeying. That includes spirit guides, angels, fairies, elves, Cosmic Mother and even a representative from another universe. They are all parts of myself that I’ve identified in a specific form, but they are also messengers from the Great Unknown.

Only 5% of our world is experienced through our consciousness; the other 95% is from our unconscious.  Our unconscious!  That part of us that we barely understand but a level of ourselves that’s responsible for most of what we experience in our own life.

The good news is that the Great Mystery wants us to come exploring and is very generous with the clarity it brings to us.

The more we practice transcendence the more we understand

Each moment of mindfulness, each request for messages from our inner world, each intuition we follow leads us further along this path of transcendence.  As we explore and begin to understand, we also begin to apply that knowledge to our Body Suit lives.  We take what we learn and use it to climb higher, move further, or dive deeper.

Nature is a powerful teacher of transcendence

We are all one energy.  All connected.  All the same.  We all move through cycles that have a beginning, a middle and an end.  Nature gives us examples of those cycles and teaches us to allow life and circumstances to simply unfold. Nature can lead us into experiences of the unseen world.

I use various techniques to purposefully focus energy. I meditate with rocks and crystals to receive their messages. I have drummed and chanted, and used symbols to heal. I have sent energy outside of time and space.  I have practiced affirmative prayer. I have meditated in many forms.  I continue to practice and expand my shamanic journeying. Now I’m joining with others in the ever-expanding Transformational Community to deepen and expand the collective consciousness.

The more I explore the “unseen” world, the more I “see.”

What is “out there”?

Transcendence is when we go beyond “me” to “we” – when we feel and know and accept that there is one great mysterious energy and that we’re each encompassed in it.

We learn to transcend our individual self and feel how deeply we’re a part of All That Is, the Great Mystery, just like everyone else.

When we realize how completely we’re connected, we become more aware of our words and actions and choices because we know how subtly and deeply we affect others – because we’re all one energy. Our choices become more aligned with a universal group consciousness, a joining of our minds in a collective energy that moves us all to places and spaces where we’ve never gone before.

Transcend – to go beyond one’s self, to move above our earthly limitations even while being alive in our body suits.

The final step beyond self-actualization is to transcend

Simply begin to notice and think about and allow yourself to experience transcendence. Notice the spaces in your meditation when you mind stills and you drift off and can no longer experience your body.

Notice the powerful calling that you have to understand “more”.  This is obviously not about dying, although dying is certainly a form of transcendence.

Look for ways to transcend right now, from here in your Body Suit. You can begin to explore the invisible realms, to transcend from the limitations of being human into the expansion of being and feeling and knowing that you are totally encompassed in the whole.

How do you experience transcendence?  What practices will you put in place to help you take this powerful next step?

To Sing a Deeper Song Consider:

Wakan Tanka, the Originating Mystery

I Am You   ‎

We Are Part of a Larger Spiritual Order

Building a Transformational Community to Heal Our World

Vlog: Your Body Suit and Invisible Self

Podcast: 45-How to Become a Mindful Presence

Filed Under: Self Transformation, Spiritual Expansion, Transformational Community Tagged With: Spiritual Expansion, transcend, transformational thinking, Unfolding

Why We Are Afraid of Change

March 16, 2017 By Cara Lumen

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What we’re seeing in the political responses around the world is a reaction to change. People want to go back to the way it was. They’re afraid of change.

That’s helpful to know.

It’s hard to keep up with change

Technology is moving us faster and farther than we ever dreamed of. It’s hard to keep up. It takes determination to keep learning It takes flexibility to change. And although, to those of us who are older, it may seem like today’s world needs an entirely new skill set, our children and grandchildren are being brought up with technology and instant access to information and the answers they seek.

Change is a constant

Here is the core truth — change is constant. Life goes in cycles and that always means change. Even when you think the cycle has returned to a situation you’ve experienced before, you find that you’ve moved forward and are standing in new and unfamiliar surroundings. Change is ever-present. Change moves you forward.

You can’t hang on to the past

It will never be the way it was — and that’s a good thing. I remember when there was no TV. I remember riding in my grandfather’s Model T car. I remember blocks of ice delivered to my grandfather’s home to a real “ice box”. My mother could vote only twelve years before I was born. Very few women my age went to college. It wasn’t expected of us. It wasn’t the norm.

Yet today, 80 years later, women are heading large companies and entering politics and making a huge impact in our world.

All because the world keeps changing.

Our roles change

House-husbands began to happen when the man stayed home and the woman was the bread-winner. Both women and men took a closer look at marriage and the long-term commitment to raising children. People of diverse genders began to define themselves. Women began to stand up for themselves and men were uncomfortable as their roles and power changed.

That’s still the case. Old male power is still in place but it will disappear in a generation. And women will have to change how they see themselves and their role. We will have to change how we participate.

How do you adjust to change?

First you have to accept that change is constant. You can never, ever, go back to the way it was. You change every minute of your existence. So does the world around you. Going back is not an option. There’s only going forward. And that takes increased flexibility, and usually some effort.

Learn from others

If you want to learn how to use your computer or your cell phone, talk to a young person. If you want to understand environmental change, listen to those who study it and reach informed decisions based on your own inquiry. If you want to learn about your own city government, get involved. Become informed. Do your homework. Check the facts.

Know yourself

Look closely at where you stop yourself with your beliefs or opinions. Identify your strengths as well as your weaknesses. Where are you happiest? What do you need to learn in order to expand your path of service? What are your gifts? Your passion? The more self-aware you become, the more aligned are the choices you make. And there will be choices — many of them —often. Knowing yourself well is the foundation upon which you stand and from which you choose. Be flexible. Be accepting. Be willing to change.

Change takes consistent action on your part

It’s very easy to learn new things. The internet gives you instant answers. Videos can show you step by step how to do anything. You now have access to fascinating thinkers online and innovative research and diverse-minded people gathering for a common cause. It’s all there, spread out before you. Don’t hide your head in the sand. Don’t harbor any desire to go back because that’s simply not going to happen. We’re going steadily forward, like it or not.

How to keep up with change

Listen. Listen to what others are saying.

Look. Look at what others are accomplishing.

Absorb and choose. Immerse yourself in possibility, choose ideas and actions that are aligned with your passion and your gifts and take the steps that will help you move forward.

Trust where you are led

When you focus on listening to your inner voice, when you use your emotions and your feelings to determine what calls to you at this moment in time, and when you simply let it unfold, it will find you and call to you clearly.

A recent shift in my own direction took a while to clarify itself. First there was just a wisp of a thought. Then waiting. Then a bit of an idea. I explored how I felt about it. More waiting. Then came a knowing about the general direction. Again waiting. And finally, like a geyser, the specifics and action steps began to flow out and fill my life. I went to work.

Don’t push your calling. Let it emerge. Don’t push change but do welcome it and enjoy the adventure.

After all, change is all there is.

To Sing a Deeper Song Consider:

How to Hold the Space for Things To Change
How to Hold the Space for the New Vision to Emerge
Reserve Space For Yourself in Your Life
How to Design an Unfolding Routine
Mindfulness and the Moment

Filed Under: Positive Change, Self Awareness, Self Transformation, Unfolding Tagged With: personal growth, positive change, self-awareness, Unfolding

New Moon, New Beginning

February 23, 2017 By Cara Lumen

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Every month, we have an opportunity to pause in gratitude, take stock of where we are, and begin a new cycle. The New Moon is a perfect reminder of this time for reviewing, rethinking, and refocusing.

Examine your unexpected gifts

To begin your New Moon Celebration, list the unexpected gifts you have received during the last 30 days. These will be opportunities you didn’t expect, decisions you made that opened fascinating new doors and ideas that seemed to appear out of the blue. Keep an awareness of the unexpected gifts you receive daily.

I write them down at the end of each day so I become more aware of how supported we are by Tao. Offer gratitude for the changes that have shaped your life.

Review what you’ve accomplished

Do a little back-patting. You got a lot of things done. You experienced change within yourself. Notice that. Appreciate the shifts and the new awareness within yourself.

Look at the path you’re on. This is where your past actions have taken you. What worked? Do more of that. What didn’t work? Do less of that.

Rethink how you feel about where you are now

You’ve changed in the last 30 days since the last New Moon. You’ve learned new things, gained new awareness, and maybe your goals have shifted a bit. Notice how you feel about your present situation and see what you’d like to change, what you’d like to keep and what you’re ready to toss.

Explore your consciousness

Part of your New Moon Celebration will be about listening within and worrying to bring what you discover into tangible concepts. I like to mind-map — with paper and pencil from a meditative state.

Take stock. How are you physically, mentally, spiritually? What new longing has emerged? What need has arisen? How will you address this in the next 30 days? Collect your ideas and choose the ones that call to you.

Refocus and re-choose for the next 30 days

Choose one new change to make in the next 30 days. You can develop a new habit, finish a project, take a new course, make a new friend, make a new choice. Gather some ideas of what might be possible. Leave room for the opportunities you don’t expect. Journal how you feel so you can see your progress at the next New Moon.

Create a ceremony

Begin your New Moon Consciousness Ceremony by reviewing your journal and mind map from the previous month. Move into an awareness of the present — what has manifested because of your thoughts and actions. Feel your way into the future, allowing your mind to explore new ideas, to sort, to consider, to accept and reject.

Meditate, sing, chant, light candles. Do what works for you to celebrate a fresh start for the next 30 days.

Let life unfold

Then put it all away and sit in silence like a blank slate, a cleared garden, a vessel of receptivity and simply be with yourself. Immerse yourself in feelings of renewal, restoration, and replenishment. Feel yourself refreshed and revitalized.

Then simply let your life unfold. Take what’s offered in the moment, and based on your own self-awareness and the over-arching goal you have selected for your life make choices that move you in the direction of your chosen “next.”

For current lunar movement tracking, check out
Moon Phases  – Lunar Calendar

To Sing a Deeper Song consider:

Let the Full Moon Help You Celebrate Cycles of Change
The Length of Your Reach
The Many Faces of Your Calling
45-How to Become a Mindful Presence
41 – How to Make Decisions When Your Let Your Life Unfold
36 – Engage the Power of Trust

Filed Under: Mindfulness, Positive Change, Self Awareness, Spiritual Expansion Tagged With: positve change, self-awareness, Spiritual Expansion, Unfolding

Why Do You Believe What You Do?

February 21, 2017 By Cara Lumen

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I’m not talking about everyday beliefs here, but spiritual beliefs. Where did your core spiritual beliefs come from? How have they changed? Have you ever questioned them?

This came up on The View when they were discussing what we tell our children about spirituality. Do we say, “This is how it is”? Or do we say, “Here are some ideas to consider”?

With something as core as spiritual beliefs, I have a feeling we were all taught “This is how it is”, which really meant “This is how I interpret what I was taught by someone who was also interpreting it.”

Hmmm…

Why not do your own research and make your own decisions?

Question everything

I’m a natural rebel. I’m no fan of dogma — rules that someone, sometime, somewhere decided were an absolute way to do something. All my life, I’ve been exploring and questioning. I started out as a Presbyterian, courtesy of my mother. My father was a Mormon but did not pursue that spiritual course with his children.

As a young mother, I was drawn to the ritual of the low Episcopal church. However, I didn’t bring my children very far into it as I didn’t want to influence them. I wanted them to have a free choice in their spirituality.

My first exposure to the world’s great religions was in a comparative religion course at university. There are a lot of religions in the world. And they are all “right” according to those who believe in them. Hmmm. My spiritual world began to broaden.

Create your own spiritual approach

One freeing spiritual step I took was when I evolved into a metaphysician, metaphysics being a philosophy that is drawn to the fundamental nature of being and the world that surrounds it. It involves things like self-responsibility and feeling our connection to each other. That is still at my core.

I love the philosophy of the indigenous cultures and their connection to the earth and nature. I am drawn to the Tao Te Ching, the foundation of Taoism — one of the world’s earliest religions — because there are no rules or dogma, only philosophical ideas to figure out.

Mix and match your spiritual approach

I took a course in Universal Shamanism and have a mesa altar on the shelf above my desk. Although the altar has the elements of the mesa ritual, the ceremony I’ve built around it is full of quotes from the Sufi poet Rumi. And it has a Buddha statue to remind me to be still and go within. It has crystals and artifacts that help me remember principles that guide me. It’s very eclectic. And every single piece is meaningful to me. That’s the point of a spiritual practice — it must be meaningful to you.

Take what works for you and create your own spiritual path

My spiritual practice includes transcendental meditation (India), an indigenous chant (Peru), combined with a visualization I learned from a healer (US). I do Qi Gong (a moving meditation from China) and yoga (India). I read Rumi (Persia), Deng Ming-Dao, and Alan Watts (US), and I work with crystals (worldwide). You get the picture. Go exploring and bring into your life the practices and elements that nurture you. Don’t be a follower. Be your own creative spiritual explorer.

I’ve done a lot of experimenting in order to evolve into where I am now spiritually. I absorbed, adapted and discarded things along the way. It was my path and it was my choice.

To develop your own form of spiritual expression, go exploring and question everything. Decide what nurtures you the most in this moment in time, based on where you are in your life. Then choose that.

If a walk in nature and hugging a tree sends you into the deeper connection with all, do that. If meditation appeals to you, explore the various ways to meditate — moving, sitting, standing. Create, adjust, adapt and make your spiritual practice your own.

Above all, know yourself

Be aware of what feels in alignment. Notice what heals you and what nurtures you. Listen to your inner voice, those sensations, those emotions. Follow that.

Question everything

Question any rules that are restrictive. In my senior center, there’s a group whose religion prohibits them from attending any social functions or participating in any social activities. Why is that a rule for them?

I suggest you question any ideology that restricts your free will to explore and decide your own spiritual path.

Trust what you choose

In designing your own spiritual path, explore facets of different religious practices. Try them on for size, and feel how they fit you — only you. Do that for a while and see what happens, what changes it brings, how supportive it feels. Then make adjustments and choose again.

I recently became aware that where we think the ultimate power is determines what we call it. Do you see that universal essence within you or outside of you?

“Live in the nowhere that you came from 
even
though you have an address here”. – Rumi

I’m actively looking for the “nowhere.” I no longer pray to anything outside myself because I believe that all my guidance and the results of my life come from my own choices, my own actions and my own beliefs.

When I change my thinking, I change my life. When I change my actions, I attract a different outcome.

So I don’t use the word “God” because it brings to mind an old white father figure in the sky, and that’s too limiting. I’ve used phrases like All-That-Is, the Great Mystery and Tao and now I think of this energy within me as my inner self, my higher self, my soul.

I work to feel myself as included and immersed in a mystical, air-like energy that has no substance that can be grasped by the human mind. I invite myself to experience the incredible energy of a tree or a rock, or my cat, or the rain. As a human living in a Body Suit, that takes some focused work.

I explore. How do I flow like water? How can I simply “be”. Where is the great nothingness that I came from? What happens when I die? How can I help heal the world? Am I accomplishing my life purpose?

Explore, study, choose

When you look for a solution, an answer will emerge. As I move into a more active role in harnessing group energy to heal the planet, I find new ways to express myself, new ideas that I adapt for my own use. And I share my interpretation with others so they, too, might begin to question and expand.

All the work begins with you

Be the story you want to tell. When you live the principles that matter to you, others will see this and perhaps add it to their own life path. They’ll take from your example what resonates with them and they’ll design their own path.

Why do you believe what you do? Because you explored, you questioned and you made choices aligned with your spiritual resonance. Allow that to change as you progress through life. You change, your spiritual life changes. This is as it should be.

Why do you believe what you do?

To Sing a Deeper Song Consider:
How to Grow fromYour Inside Out
The Power of Positive Purpose
How do You Put your Spiritual Insights to Work?
How to Track Your Self-Awareness
What if You Broke the Mold?

Filed Under: Self Awareness, Spiritual Expansion Tagged With: positve change, Spiritual Expansion, Unfolding

When Change is Hard

January 12, 2017 By Cara Lumen

Chick from egg

I know that change is ongoing. I know there are natural cycles of change that are always occurring in my life. But sometimes I’d just like things to stay the way they are . At least, just for a while so I don’t have to work so hard to keep up with the changes. Have you ever felt that way?

The technical challenge

“Technical” is not a calling for me and yet I find it continually necessary for me to keep learning — new software, new web page set-ups, new social media platforms, new apps. It’s time-consuming and that’s when I realized I sometimes wish change were not so active in my life.

And yet…

How do you get things done if you don’t allow for change?

Not changing sure is easier

It’s a whole lot easier for me to sit a little longer each day than to get up and push myself to add a few steps to my walking routine. But sitting leads to a lessening of my ability and my strength. I have to oppose the change my body would like to make as it ages. And I have to adjust to the fact that change is happening all the time and that I need to learn to make informed decisions about what I should do about it.

It’s “too hard”

As my body gets cranky with age, I find myself saying, “this is hard to figure out.” Or “that’s hard to do.” I need to eliminate the word “hard” from my vocabulary. Something I want to do may take some imagination, it may take persistence, it may take practice, but the idea of “hard” or “difficult” has to go. I just need to hunker down and do it.

What do you want the outcome to be?

If I want my new email sign-up form to work, I have to read the directions and, if necessary, seek help from the service desk.

If I want to figure out my new phone and learn to use it effectively, I have to practice, or explore, or take lessons from someone a lot younger than I am.

If I want to have more stamina, I have to set a definite exercise program for myself and I absolutely must keep doing it regardless of what distractions my mind suggests.

Where is “too hard” in your life?

Keep an eye out for the times you start to do something and the idea of “too hard” shows up. Push through that. Banish it from your thinking. And watch for it to try to sneak back into your life in unexpected places. “Too hard” lurks around corners in waiting…

Ruts feel easier and safer

Ruts are very comfortable. It’s a lot easier to stay stuck where you are. There’s no challenge to learn something new. No opportunity to experience something different. Staying stuck sure is easy. Progress may take some effort. At the very least, progress is going to require you to be willing to change.

Change is going to happen anyway

Whether you embrace it or not, change is always happening. Just as the seasons organically change, so does our life experience unfold. Of course you can take some resting time. But when “too hard” shows up, look at it as a red flag and find your way around it.

Modify what you’re doing. Spread it out over smaller steps. Ask for help. Visualize how it’ll feel when you get to the other end of this change cycle.

There’s no time when there’s not change

Whether a change seems to happen in seconds, or in months, the process of change is the same. Keep an eye out for the changes that are slowing you down and encourage the outlook, habits, awareness and choices that help you keep steadily moving forward.

Erase the idea of “hard” from you life and replace it with “opportunity.”

Each new step, challenge, mistake, interaction is an element of change. It’s an opportunity to learn. Embrace it. Apply it.

To Sing a Deeper Song consider:
Be the Story you Want to Tell
The Move From Inner to Outer Work
Change Your Expectations
Share From Your Soul
Learn to Honor Your Inner Rhythm

Filed Under: Positive Change, Self Awareness, Spiritual Expansion Tagged With: positve change, self-awareness, Spiritual Expansion, Unfolding

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